Cords and energy exchanged

Have you ever stopped to observe the cords you have and the way they are maintained with the people you are connected to. Are they healthy, are they positive and do they make you feel good? A chord is or can be the flow of energy you engage between two people. How much energy is passing from one to another or exchanged? Is the amount of flowing energy even?

You create a cord most of the time without thinking. It depends on the dynamics of yourself and the other party which determine what type of cord gets formed and energy gets exchanged. It is also part of human nature to naturally form chords.

Being mindful of cords and energy that is received and given out helps you to stay and feel more secure in yourself. Making sure you engage or participate in a relationship where you are self aware of what you are part of and self aware of what you give.

Being unaware can cause us to feel empty, let down or hurt. It can also cause confusion if the energy being exchanged is not balanced and trigger emotions of anger and sadness.

Some things to think about.

• is the cord tight or loose?

• Is the cord that is exchanging energy between two parties even, balanced and healthy?

• Is the cord developed through the heart, ego, sexual or neither?

• Does the cord feel like it hooks or pulls you in any way?

• Do you like the way the cord feels?

• Are the cords you develop with people all the same and are you creating a pattern with your chords?

• Is the flow of energy consistent or is it fickle?

You have the power to control the cords you engage and grow. This is done by being mindful of what you choose to give and take.

Copyright by Jillian Mercieca © 2020